Happy New Year Topeka Kansas Courts and whores of the Court- as you all sit around ‘cheering’ each other- while the blood of innocents continue to spill- your crimes against humanity will NOT go un-noted.
As you see from the letter below- Odyssey-(as represented to myself- and my daughter- and the Courts) and where I made payments for my Supervised Visits (all 3 of them this past year…)
What is a court whore?
“ Those who assist and or collude with others for self-profit or agenda in denying basic HUMAN Rights and access to Justice through NON-Scientific philosophy – just some ones- opinion not a professional but a idea.” Court Appointed Child Abusers.
Odyssey is a Whore of the Court by all definition. The clear intent of SERVING the PEDOPHILE is more than clear-(oh btw we force the victims of the pedo crimes to participate in- as well you know we will RE-Integrate the pedo back into the home- and call it SAPA.
Therapeutic Jurisprudence must be and will be eliminated from our Court rooms. Whores of the Court Whores of the Court ISBN #0060391979 ReganBooks.
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This is my open reply to you Julie- Dittmer. and Odyssey-on expose list (three down)
1. M. Jill Dykes 2. Judge David Debenham 3. Odyssey (Kara Haney, Drex Flott and by her own choosing Julie Dameron- Dittmer)
Again, You are mandated reporters, again you care nothing about the children ONLY the blood money from the perps, the grant money of the taxpayer to give Sexual Pedophile (and your secure jobs for those who make up ‘treatment’ for) REINTEGRATION into the homes-
But lets continue to batter the mother and child and protect the ‘batterer’ once again- it only stands to reason does it not..?
Protect the pedophile- protect the batterer. Keep the funding rolling in.
Following Julie Dittmer’s idiotic letter below please note the following indexed recording the day after my mother died- when Drex Flott, Kara Haney and myself talked about my daughter going to her grandmothers funeral- and the clear and present ‘danger’ that my daughter is in- as the extreme ‘control’ that her father has over her- and as long as ‘perp’ has control- my daughter should… remain somewhat safe…. listen for your self.
Then listen to the hearing…that denied a child to go to her granny’s funeral- (but they let her dog)
Now, why would I, be anything but upset? go figure <scratching head>
also, by the way;
Dear Julie, thanks for your ‘prompt’ reply. (two months later) I Googled TREC –sigh-
I also hyperlinked your letter- I have made only two comments to your letter at end of letter
From: Julie Dittmer mailto:firstname.lastname@example.org
Sent: Tuesday, December 29, 2009 3:35 PM
Subject: Re: -- SPAM -- FW: Odyssey, Torture and Rikki
Claudine, this is Julie Dittmer. I no longer run the Supervised Visit program at Odyssey; in fact, that program is no longer an Odyssey program at all. (THE PROGRAM IS A NOT FOR PROFIT ONE, AND IT'S NAME IS TREC NOW. ) I left that position to have some surgery this past summer, and have had nothing to do with your case since long before that. It would be inappropriate of me to participate in any contact regarding the current status of your case or your daughter, but you and I both know that I have never been anything but nice to you both. I cannot imagine why you would see fit to wage a personal vendetta against me using the Internet, (and to include my Odyssey brochure, with links to my name) when I did nothing more or less than my job and I got you visits with your daughter, which no one else would do for you at that time. I am sorry if your visits have not gotten you what you wanted or where you wanted to be right now, but we both know that your anger at me and at Odyssey is misplaced. I passed along your past comments and messages to TREC as you asked when you sent the message below. This all I can do at this point, and am no longer involved.
I have seen the Internet links and your reproduction of my brochure, associated with words like whore and pedophile. I would like to continue to be nice to you, but your actions have now forced me to issue you a warning: If you do not remove everything that includes my name, the name of the Odyssey Group, and the reproduction of our copyrighted material from your postings, (including those under your Angelfury psuedonym), I will be forced to take legal action against you personally and against any organization you represent. I have consulted an attorney and am clear that this constitutes slander and is illegal, (Its’ not Slander when it it’s the truth) as well as just plain wrong. Please let me know immediately that you have removed these postings (and that you will post nothing further involving me within five calendar days) or I will proceed with a lawsuit.
(Knock yourself out- I am used to injustice and threats and actions to silence the truth, I have only the truth and it need no public support- the truth still stands.) cmd
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Thursday, October 29, 2009 5:20 PM
Subject: -- SPAM -- FW: Odyssey, Torture and Rikki
I trust you will forward on, perhaps it is you to whom I need to address this with any ways?
Please advise and Thank you!
From: AngelFury@AngelFury.org [mailto:AngelFury@AngelFury.org]
Sent: Thursday, October 29, 2009 5:26 PM
Subject: Odyssey, Torture and Rikki
I will simply add to this that I have the video and audio recordings of ‘our’ visit; yourself, Kara and I already on line (but private atm) when my mother died one year ago yesterday. If you recall both you and Kara stated your more than obvious concerns about the ‘control’ issues surrounding Rikki, the girlfriend Julie and her father. You both also voiced your concerns for Rikki’s safety and that as long as dad had ‘control’ she ‘should’ be somewhat safe.
I need not remind you that you are mandated reporters. But, my goal is to see my daughter pure and simple. I have not seen her since before the last hearing. We have hearing to end this all Nov. 13th, 2009. I would very much appreciate any positive efforts made in getting a few visits in with Rikki, in whatever way you can before the hearing.
Drex, it takes only one to make a difference. I am asking on behalf of Rikki, I and Rikki’s dead grandmother; to whom she never was able to say good bye too.
Your prompt attention to this matter is greatly appreciated and any intervention to assist Rikki and I.
Domestic violence is on the rise in Shawnee County | KTKA.com
An Interview with DA Chad Taylor and Survivor Claudine Dombrowski
From: AngelFury@AngelFury.org [mailto:AngelFury@AngelFury.org]
Sent: Thursday, October 29, 2009 12:12 PM
Subject: Odyssey, Torture and Rikki
I talked with Rikki last night, she is devastated and misses her mom, she is being told the most outlandish things like I have abandoned her, do not love her, and the latest, that Kara said to her that Rikki will not be able to see me again, as I do not have the money to PAY Odyssey. (I have NOT been informed by Kara or any other that this was the case)
This is beyond insane. I did the best I could with her during our extended phone call, that in the beginning she was reluctant as of the lies that have been and are continuing to be told to her, but after an hour of her breaking down- literally, crying her heart out, she is left just hurting and needing very much closure on this CONTROL that dad has over OUR parenting time. And a chance to being to heal.
Also please be aware that she is being told to say the same things to the court, only her knowledge and what she is ordered to tell. She trusts NO ONE. She is scared and aches for her mom and her grandma. I am still here however.
Although I do not have two dimes to rub together at the moment- I am in a clean safe 2 bedroom apartment. Rikki knows where, She has always known where I am at (even if car only) this is done as well through the Safe at Home, Address Confidential Program through the Secretary of State. http://www.kssos.org/safeathome/
When Hoffman and the GAL from hell demand address – as with all enrolled with children ONLY the attorney General has access to knowledge of residence.
That is all that is needed in the lifting of the Supervised visits (which NEVER should have been imposed to begin with). The Leadership Council Just released: Domestic Violence by Proxy. I have never been shown to be a flight risk any more than a danger to my almost age 15 year old daughter.
This little girl (my only daughter) is in tremendous amounts of pain, unbearable and healing from what this system has done to her by so viciously taking her mother away is imperative to her ever being able to recover.
See the KS AG’s web site for Silverman, Jaffe and Bancroft research showing that children’s relationship with their mother is VITAL to their own self recovery. (I helped get this info into the State by THIS case alone)
Tuck, please make this end for my daughter’s sake- please. Having her mother dead or homeless or in ‘CONTROL” via SV is NOT going to help her. Rikki and I discussed this, and although she is being told to say she wants it- she does not. She wants her mom. Needs her mom.
Please respond when you can I am sure that you already have it worked out and that I as well as Rikki, just need to be patient a little while longer, Nov. 13th. For Justice to begin its slow turn, bear in mind however that both of us are suffering as a result of the wait so please do not allow any continuations, or deviations from the hearing.
Please, I implore you, and graciously thank you for all your help, as does Rikki. We are both beyond exhausted.
PBS Documentary: Breaking the Silence; Children’s Stories
Family Law Documentary: Crisis in America’s Family Courts; Our Children at Risk
Leadership Council recommends For further information:
- Are Protective Parents Losing Custody to Alleged Abusers? Evidence shows that women who raise concerns about family violence during custody litigation run the risk of losing their children.
- Stopfamilyviolence.org: The people's voice for family peace. Stop Family Violence is a national grassroots organization with a mission to organize and amplify our nation's collective voice against family violence.
- CA3 -Children Against Court Appointed Child Abuse
- High-conflict divorce or stalking by way of family court? Massachusetts Family Law Journal, 2004.http://www.mincava.umn.edu/reports/linda.asp
- Hoult, Jennifer. (Spring 2006). The Evidentiary Admissibility of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Science, Law, and Policy,Children's Legal Rights Journal, 26(1) pp. 1-61. (download PDF)
10-29-2008 1h 50m
13:2914:13 Kira petition what do you want and the court hearing set
16:07 -what is our involvement
17:00- contact with rikki
17:50- lacey [the dog]
18:43- motion 4 hearing asking for normalcy in visits
20:19 -about the motion being filed rikki not on the kid more convenient for dad?
21:45 -dependent upon her peers give her money
22.35- $20.00 to e
22.53 -denied braces no phone-denied contact with her phone
23.55 -it is not up to rikki
25.00 -dad broke my mouth but don’t place psych eval.
26:12- power struggle with courts (I acted out)
27:00 -we deserve this trip together
29:00- I drove twice week I worked at LSH
30:10- rikki –‘granny won’t let dad hurt mom’
30:00 -(15 years)
32:00 KsJudicialperformance act (liz samora
33.00 drex more than we know.
34.00 try loosing a child to an abuser I thought- I had the right to be safe
36:00 my mom my pain not going to let that happen to my daughter.
BMCC two years’ courageous kids
38:00 not a part of my life
41:00- how come dad don’t love me (rikki)
43:00- rikki is awesome drex says ‘I am in her’ ag 's office- rikki early years 4 or 5 years old
46:50 - when they took my daughter they took my soul
47:00- letter from hospital
48:50 -contact with GAL braces Aug 6th en re braces
51:58 Rikki says ‘dad is in charge (dont write this down)
53:33- kira a couple of issues 1. Funeral 2. Unsupervised
1:15:30 does rikki want to go en re the court
1:17:15 rikkis voice well rikki says
1:19:50 Kira- ‘rikki does have a very controlled home a lot of external Control
1:21:50 for rikkis safety- choose to disengage as I am not safe for her- this is how are lives are-
1:23:25- admissions of abuse
1:26:40 -how rikki survives- Julie- takes a lot for rikki
1:28:28 Julie is in fear too -rikki is the best judge
1:30:00 visits are very empowering very balanced positive strength based
1:33:20 sv is not there gives us freedom rikki and I freedom? to monitor at discretion we don’t need help to nurture our relationship states kira
1:37:23 visits don’t cut my visits drex reintegration reunification
1:38:36 visits went back because julie and rikki to cancel the visit so they just set them back temporary football season-Rikki in a double binder-
1:41:13 - kira -rikki struggled with telling mom no more weekends. drex- I cry a lot- national zone
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Odyssey Topeka Kansas Court Whores Profit by Reintegrating Pedophiles back into the home and refusal to Protect ‘abused’ children and their battered mothers.
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Children Taken By the Family Courts Hand Prints Project
Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody:
A National Crisis
Seventh Annual Conference
January 8th - 10th 2010 Albany, New York
For additional information, conference registration, special hotel rate, etc., visit www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org
Children Taken By the Family Courts Hand Prints Project
In addition to the “Children Taken by the Family Courts Quilt”, this year the Battered Mothers Custody Conference will host a new project that will display cut out handprints representing children who have been taken by the family courts.
We are asking mothers who have lost custody to create handprints that will be hung on clothesline to commemorate their lost children. The Hand Prints project is modeled after the AIDS quilt that was started in 1987 and that has since grown tremendously, gaining wide publicity for the cause of combating AIDS and HIV infection.
Materials will be provided at the conference for mothers to work on this project. However, attendance at the conference is not necessary to participate. Handprints may be mailed in advance or brought to the conference (see instructions below).
If it is not possible to trace children’s handprints, please trace YOUR (the mother’s) handprints for each child lost through the courts.
Trace and cut out your child’s (or your) handprints (left and right) on colored poster board paper.
On the front of your handprints, please write:
First name(s) and last initial(s) of the child(ren) of whom you lost custody as a result of family or divorce court proceedings.
The child(ren)’s date of birth and the county and state of the court system through which you lost custody.
The month and year you lost custody of your child(ren).
Any drawings, artwork, or items that make the handprints meaningful to you.
On the back of each individual hand print, please write YOUR full name, phone number, physical address, and e-mail address.
Please also take the time to write a statement about your child(ren) and briefly describe how you lost custody. Please also include your full name, phone number, physical address, and e-mail address.
Before Jan. 2, 2010, please mail handprints to:
Linda Marie Sacks
P.O. Box 730966
Ormond Beach, FL 32173
After Jan. 2, 2010, please mail handprints to:
26 Purtell Avenue
Latham NY 12110
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Clear Motive - SUSAN MURPHY MILANO'S JOURNAL
SUSAN MURPHY MILANO'S JOURNAL
It was two days after Christmas and 18 days after the ink barely dry on the divorce papers when, Mathew Schneider stormed into the home of his ex-wife as their 8year-old watched when "daddy" shot Mom and her new boyfriend multiple times before turning the gun on himself.
Brandy Schneider filed for divorce in Stark County Ohio, April 2009. She informed the courts and others "he is going to kill me."
According to the police chief “we need to see who else we need to interview and start working backward from the crime to see what his (Schneider’s) state of mind was and his motives.” The shooter’s state of mind is clear as is the motive. The police chief might want to start with the court records from the divorce.
Also the weapons: how did a criminal gain access to firearms?
Then I suggest family and friends personally visit the prosecutors who might want to remove the cob webs from beneath their desk and investigate how a dangerous sexual predator and felon on house arrest threatening to kill his soon to be ex-wife had access to weapons? And why was he not placed on a monitoring device?
In 2008, he plead guilty on a sexual case involving a 15- year old girl and only received 12 days in jail, and was placed on three years probation and classified a Tier II sex offender, which required him to register his address with authorities every 180 days for 25 years. Where the heck was his probation officer on vacation?
When the prosecutor obtains those answers perhaps they can see precisely how the legal system failed Brandy Schneider and implement a protocol within the domestic relations courthouse so others can have a fighting opportunity to remain alive. Then the family should, in my opinion. hire an attorney as they probably have an excellent case for a wrongful death lawsuit.
Divorce is often connected to repeated threats, stalking, harassment and yes, murder. A victim of abuse whether it be a man or a woman faces obstacles in the courts when judge’s fail to take accusations of threats seriously. This case is a classic example.
My least favorite example is when the courts reward the abusive parent, by granting access to not only the children, but, the victim. An abuser could care less about the kids often using them as a point of negotiation to either torment their victim further or stop the divorce procedings all together and return as a family under the same roof. Once the abuser has lost control they will play whatever hand is dealt them in order to win at any and all costs.
This is no longer an isolated war . The more law enforcement and the legal system ignore issues of abuse within cases of divorce expect a higher number of murderedchildren, mothers and fathers to increase in the years ahead.
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LABELS: BRANDY SCHNEIDER, CRIMINAL SEXUAL ASSAULT,DIVORCE.CHILDREN, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE MURDER, LEGAL SYSTEM BROKEN,OHIO, WEAPONS. FELONTechnorati Tags: Clear,Motive,SUSAN,MURPHY,MILANO,JOURNAL,Christmas,papers,Mathew,Schneider,wife,times,Brandy,Stark,Ohio,April,courts,crime,shooter,records,Also,weapons,friends,desk,predator,felon,girl,probation,Tier,offender,authorities,Where,officer,vacation,system,protocol,courthouse,opinion,attorney,death,lawsuit,Divorce,threats,harassment,victim,woman,threat,example,parent,children,abuser,kids,negotiation,roof,Once,cases,COMMENTS,LINKS,POST,CRIMINAL,SEXUAL,ASSAULT,DOMESTIC,VIOLENCE,MURDER,LEGAL,BROKEN,firearms,obstacles,accusations,fathers
OH: Friends of Brandy Schneider speak out over double murder-suicide investigation
Friends of Brandy Schneider speak out over double murder-suicide investigation
Brandy L. Schneider
By Ann Kagarise
Tue Dec 29, 2009, 11:55 AM EST
Jackson TWP, Ohio -
Jackson Police are investigating an apparent double murder-suicide that occurred Sunday.
Just before 8 a.m., Jackson police were called to 6686 Ravenwood Ave. N.W. Found were three adults at the Jackson Township duplex, dead from gunshot wounds. The victims have been identified as Brandy L. Schneider, 32, of the Ravenwood address., Derrick W. Busto, 29, of 1257 Bellflower Ave. N.W., Canton and Matthew Schneider, 30, of 805 Applegrove St. N.W.
Matthew’s brother, Lucas, called police, according to Jackson Police Chief Harley Neftzer.
The case is still under investigation, but it appears at this time, that Matthew Schneider shot his ex-wife, Brandy Schneider and Derrick Busto before turning the gun on himself.
Two guns, both used, were found at the scene, according to reports.
Friends speak out
Jennifer Brandon, Brandy’s longtime friend, knew her well.
“She was a great person and I’m not just saying that,” said Brandon. “She really was. She was her son’s life and he was hers. She was such a family person. She would do anything for them.”
Brandon said she was with Jennifer when the Schneider’s divorce was finalized.
“When the divorce was final, two weeks ago, he told her he was going to kill her,” Brandon said. “She knew he was going to do something to her.”
Brandon said she was afraid for her friend.
“I knew when I saw him in court,” said Brandon. “He looked so psychotic looking at the trial and he looked insane. I said, ‘Brandy, he is going to hurt you’ and she said, ‘Jennifer, I know but what can I do?’”
The system knows about all the threats.
“He had a great lawyer,” Brandon said. “The lawyer would make a deal and the judge allowed it. My friend is dead and she doesn’t have to be. She would say many times, ‘He is going to kill me. If they don’t put him in jail, he is going to kill me.’”
Matthew had a criminal history. He was on house arrest when he killed her and Busto.
“He was very abusive,” Brandon said. “He spent the first year of their son’s life in prison because he beat her severely. He beat her many times. He beat her when she was pregnant.”
He was not allowed off his house arrest when the incident occurred, Brandon pointed out. “He did not have permission to be at her house that early in the morning.”
Matthew was also a convicted sexual predator.
“He was convicted for having sexual relations with a 15-year-old neighbor girl,” Brandon said. “He pled guilty. He got probation. He violated his probations. Instead of putting him in jail, they let him out and now Brandy is dead.”
This was not the first time Matthew broke into her apartment, said Brandon.
“One day, Brandy found him in her son’s room,” she said. “He had to have been there three hours. She opened the door and there he was. She didn’t even know he was there.”
Rachel Livengood, friend and neighbor of Brandy, was afraid for her kids. “I have been afraid of having my kids play in the front yard because of Matt.”
Matthew was not permitted to have guns, but he had them said Brandon.
“He had guns on him when he broke his probation,” said Brandon. “They still just put him on house arrest. Brandy knew he had guns. She told them he had guns.”
Brandon said Matt was behind on child support, but Brandy never gave up on him.
“She just wanted him to be the husband and father she thought he could be.”
She wanted to get away, but Matthew had supervised visitations with their son every Sunday, said Brandon.
Matthew’s mother was estranged from her son, according to Brandon.
“She did not agree with what he was doing and how he was treating his son.”
Brandon said Matthew worked for a cable company and he was concerned that a sexual predator was allowed in homes to work.
“Brandy was a straight-A student at school and sang in the church choir,” Brandon said, describing her friend. “She was like a goodie-goodie. I would tease her.”
Brandy had been a loan officer with Quicken Loans and U.S. Bank, but recently she had taken a job with E.B. Display to be closer to home to get her son off the bus, said Brandon.
Matthew had recently been sending her texts informing her that he would kill himself, said Brandy’s friends.
She was dating the other victim at the house, Busto. Brandon had met him a couple of times. He recently had attended Brandy’s son’s Christmas play.
“She was so happy,” Brandon said. “This was the happiest I had seen her in six years. She was happy because she had a new boyfriend. That was a huge issue for Matt. He didn’t want to see her happy. He would rather see her buried than happy.”
Brandon said Matthew made harassing phone calls and manipulations with police getting involved.
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New Forum: Protective Parents for Children’s Rights
New Forum: Protective Parents for Children’s Rights
Filed under: Activism, Best interest of the child, CPS, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Child Protective Services, Children and Domestic Violence,Children who witness abuse, Children's rights, Divorce, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Law, Domestic Relations, Domestic Violence, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, battered women — justice4mothers @ 4:30 pm
I am so impressed by this site! It is an online discussion and chat forum for protective parents, which includes parents who have lost custody of their children to their abusers. This is from the site:
Welcome to Protective Parents for Children’s Rights!
This is a free forum for protective parents to publicly warn others about court strategies, personnel that fail to protect children, violate their human rights and often vilify the both the child and the parent trying to protect them. This forum is public to read. In order to be able to post information, you will need to register and be approved for membership to keep out those people on the internet who do not have the same goal of child protection. Do not post your name or a child’s name unless you want it to live forever on the internet. You can expose judicial failings by naming the people involved who are involved in undermining protective efforts. Be sure that you do not commit libel/slander, but report the facts, using the words allegedly and reportedly as need be. The posts are moderated and it is important to not violate Terms of Service for the forum host. Please start exposing those involved in the unethical treatment of children and other abuse victims. When posting a new topic, please select the correct location and list the county or district as well as the state or province in the subject title.
Go register at Protective Parents for Children’s Rights and join the discussion, and enjoy the music too! See you there!
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Tuesday, December 29, 2009
“Children Taken By the Family Courts” Handprints” 7th Annual Battered Mothers Custody Conference Jan 8-10, 2010 Albany, NY
“Children Taken By the Family Courts” Handprints
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“Children Taken By the Family Courts” Handprints
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“Children Taken By the Family Courts” Handprints
Albany, New York
For the 1st year, the Seventh Annual Battered Mothers Custody Conference 2010, Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody, A National Crisis VII: “Now That We Know, What Are We Doing About It?” is hosting the construction of children’s handprints who have been taken by the family courts. www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org January 8th, 9th, and 10th 2010 in Albany, New York. This is a national crisis in the family courts all over the US and Mothers are losing custody….unfairly by a court system that is not protecting our children.
Just imagine, a long clothesline, with mini wooden clothespins, and handprints of all sizes, representing protective mothers and their children who have been “legally kidnapped” by the family courts.
We are asking Mothers who have lost physical custody of their child(ren) to create handprints to commemorate their lost child(ren). Throughout weekend of the conference, we will be providing materials and ask Mothers to add paper cut-out handprints to the clothesline.
However, Mothers do NOT need to be in attendance at the conference in order to add their handprints. Please mail the handprints before Jan. 2, 2010 to:
Linda Marie Sacks P.O. Box 730966 Ormond Beach, FL 32173
Questions…..call Linda Marie 386-453-3017
after Jan 2, 2010 please mail to:
Dr. Mo Hannah, Chair, BMCC 2010 26 Purtell Avenue Latham NY 12110 firstname.lastname@example.org
Instructions: Place your child’s hands on a piece of paper, cardstock works best, trace your child’s handprints (left and right) on colored paper, cut out and write a message if you’d like and mail before the conference to Linda Marie, as she will constructing the clothesline and will have it at the conference. After the Jan. 2th date…please send to Dr. Mo Hannah.
Sadly, if you cannot see your child(ren) to trace their handprints, please, trace YOUR handprints for every child you have lost to the crisis in the courts.
Once the handprints are constructed, we will lend it out to individuals and organizations for promoting and publicizing the problems faced by battered mothers and children within the family court system.
One day justice will prevail…..thanks to all the wonderful people who are part of the solutions to the family court crisis.
Dr. Mo Hannah, Chair BMCC 2010
Linda Marie Sacks
Monday, December 28, 2009
Gunfire leads to child abuse charge
Reported by: TCPalm
Last Update: 7:43 am
Christopher Cady (STLCSO)
ST. LUCIE COUNTY, FL— A 39-year-old St. Lucie County man is facing child abuse charges after allegedly shooting a boy in the chest with a pellet gun to teach him a lesson, according to St. Lucie County Sheriff’s Office arrest report.
On Christmas Day, deputies charged Christopher Fred Cady, of the 2600 block of North U.S. 1, with felony cruelty toward child without great harm.
The report gives the following account:
The boy received a pellet gun as a Christmas gift and went outside to play with it. Outside, he shot his autistic cousin in the buttocks.
Cady, a registered sex offender, took the gun from the boy and shot the boy in the chest, “to show him what he felt like and that getting shot with a pellet gun hurts.”
A large welt was on the right side of the boy’s chest. The boy spent the night with his grandmother and the incident was reported to the Department of Children and Families.
As of Saturday, Cady was in St. Lucie County Jail in lieu of $500 bail for the child abuse charge and being held without bail for failing to report a change in address or name as a sex offender.
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Lora Brislin case by Evanlee
http://parentingabu sedkids.wordpres s.com/2009/ 12/28/petition- save-sisters- from-court- ordered-abuse/
Lora Brislin is the mother of two daughters ages 6 and 4. Lora has not spoken to or seen her daughters since April of this year (2009). In May Judge Phyllis Miller of Gwinnett County, Georgia ordered that ALL custody and visitation be taken from Lora, and that the girls be in the sole custody of their father and his new wife.
Lora endured 5 years of physical and mental abuse at the hands of her former husband, the father of their 2 girls. During which time he, repeatedly hit Lora as well as stalked, harassed, and verbally abused her.
During their marriage the father wanted nothing to do with their two daughters. When Lora finally found the courage to leave her abuser in October of 2006, the father suddenly became adamant in 2007 after advice of his attorney to start exercising his visitation because he was not doing so. Not only did he get visitation of these children, he began threatening to take custody away from Lora Brislin.
Lora has been the one, for two years now who has had to endure a battery of psychological tests, chastisement and ridicule from the courts, and little help on the part of law enforcement officials. For two years, Ms. Brislin has heard numerous pleas of help from her daughters and has tried to make the courts listen to her and her children and, once and for all, hear the TRUTH. Instead, she was laughed at by the courts, told she was making false allegations against their father, and was a menace to her children. On May 7, 2009 the father was awarded sole custody and Lora was to have no contact with her daughters whatsoever by their Judge who has since been disbarred this July 2009.
The father served a lengthy term in jail as a result of his criminal activity. In one of his previous marriages, not only did he also abuse his former wife as well. He abandoned his son and gave up his parental rights in exchange for child support (not having to pay).
Lora Brislin, along with the undersigned, is confused by this outrageous injustice by the court. Ms. Brislin is not the only loving and responsible mother who has had her children literally ripped from her arms and placed in the sole custody of an abusive father. We are asking that this case be reopened and investigated. We ask that this egregious injustice be dealt with, and that Lora and her daughters be reunited. If the sisters were placed in a neutral setting during this process and their safety assured to them, they would most likely state that they do not feel safe with their father and wish to be able to live with their mother. They were “whipped” into silence and at one point made to say it was their mother who was the alleged molester when they were accompanied by their father to interviews.
This grave misuse of power cannot be stood for! Clearly there is some reason other than simply poor judgment on the part of the courts that has caused Lora Brislin to lose all contact with her children. No matter what that hidden agenda might be, if the court decision is allowed to stand the Gwinnett County court system will be continuing to place these children in harms way and be punishing their mother for trying to protect them! NO CHILD OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THIS STATE CAN BE CONSIDERED SAFE IF WE CANNOT GET THESE SISTERS SAFE!
There are men and women all over the country as well as all over the world, who are watching to see what is done about this horrific case of court-ordered abuse. We believe that if government officials do not intervene in cases like this in which a clear misuse of power has destroyed the lives of two young children and their mother, then the government should be seen as, not only negligent, but as condoning this outrageous behavior on the part of judges who seemingly, has to answer to no one!
Our family court system was supposed to have been put in place for the purpose of aiding families, and in cases where abuse is involved, supporting the protective parent, thereby ensuring the safety of innocent and defenseless children. In this case, however, it appears that the very system that was put into place for the purpose of protecting children is, instead, aiding in the traumatizing of these helpless victims.
Update December 8, 2009: I just wanted to let members know that though we have been threatened legal action if this and similar sites were not taken down, this will not deter us in our fight for TRUTH and JUSTICE. We are not interested in clouding issues, we want to bring the truth into the light and if this upsets people, then they must have… something to hide. We have obviously hit a nerve and we got a reaction. We will continue to advocate for the Brislin sisters until a true, ethical and indepth investigation is completed. Not limited to polygraphs and the reopening of former documented evidence.
Petition to Reunite Lora Brislin with her two daughters Megan and Elizabeth: We, the undersigned, are standing together in an attempt to speak for these little ones who are not allowed to speak for themselves and, in order to prevent further destruction in their lives, we are asking that this case be revisited and that The Truth finally be brought into The Light so that justice can prevail: http://www.thepetit ionsite.com/ 1/reunite- lora-brislin- two-daughters
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Sunday, December 27, 2009
Young mother who fled to Sydney to save her life-Husband Stabbed her to Death in Front of Children. (the Hague convention -- sent her back)
Young mother fled to Sydney to save her life- husband convicted for stabbing his 24-year-old wife to death in front of his two little boys has been jailed for life in a British court, shouting abuse at her family as he was led away
PAOLA TOTARO HERALD CORRESPONDENT IN LONDON
Cassandra Hasonovic...convinced she was going to die at the hands of her husband.
CASSANDRA HASANOVIC was convinced she was going to die at the hands of her husband but her pleas for help - in Australia and Britain - fell on deaf ears.
"He said he was going to chop me up in little pieces and post me piece by piece to my family," she told police more than a year before her death.
The nightmare tale of the mother, 24, who was dragged out of a car and stabbed to death by her husband in front of her mother and two young sons in July, neared its climax in a British court yesterday.
Mrs Hasanovic died hours after begging British police to drive her to a safe house: "I live in fear for my safety. I am so scared of him."
Her story was recounted this week during the trial of Hajrudin Hasanovic, 33, who was last night found guilty of murder and sentenced to a minimum of 18 years in jail.
The jury learned how he was to have been deported to his native Serbia after losing custody of his children, following his conviction for sexually assaulting his wife.
They heard a damning story of a woman whose fears were ignored by authorities in two hemispheres for more than 12 months.
The five-year marriage ended in May 2007 after the sexual assault and Mrs Hasanovic fled to Australia, where she had relatives. She lived in the safety of Sydney's western suburbs in the fervent hope of seeking custody of her sons.
But Lewes Crown Court, in West Sussex, heard that Australian authorities insisted she return to Britain, arguing the case had to be pursued there.
Philippa McAtasney, QC, who opened the case for the prosecution, told the court that she returned to Britain at the cost of her life.
In the months that followed her return, police were called to several violent confrontations between the couple, and officers equipped the young mother with a panic alarm.
Mrs Hasanovic's mother, Sharon De Souza, broke down as she described the terror inside the car on July 29, when her son-in-law appeared from nowhere and lunged at the car as she prepared to drive her daughter and grandsons to a refuge.
In the panic, the car's central locking was de-activated, allowing Hasanovic to reach into the back seat, where his wife was sitting between the boys.
"I just remember trying to start the car and the alarm went off and I could not get the car started … I could see a figure coming towards me in the shade …" Mrs De Souza said.
"I looked up again and he was staring towards me. … I just thought: 'Oh, my God."'
She then saw Hasanovic drag her daughter from the car, leaving her face down on the pavement.
"She was lying on the ground. Her eyes were open and she was not moving at all.
"I didn't realise she was dead. I said: 'Come on, hold on, you're going to be OK.' I could see the blood [but] I could not take it in and I remember hearing the boys screaming."
"Cassie was devastated when under the Hague convention she was ordered to return the boys to England," Mrs De Souza said.
"This brutal, cruel and senseless act has torn our lives apart".
Following a court order killed her
PAOLA TOTARO IN LONDON
May 4, 2009
Cassie with her sons Sam, 5, and Adam, 3. Photo: Supplied by Sussex Police
The man accused of stabbing his 24-year-old wife to death in front of his two little boys has been jailed for life in a British court, shouting abuse at her family as he was led away.
Hajrudin Hasanovic was convicted of the murder unanimously in a West Sussex Court but shouted at his former wife's devastated family and friends as he was led to the cells: "My children will never forgive you for what you have done to me and Cassie. . .you killed her. You are bastards all of you."
Police officers were forced to intervene and led him forcibly out of the dock, leaving the family in tears, the Argus newspaper reported.
The terrible tale the 24-year-old mother, Cassandra Hasanovic, who sought refuge from her violent husband in Australia but was refused unfolded during a three-week trial. The court heard that she was dragged out of the family car and stabbed to death by her husband in front of her mother and sons last July, just hours after begging police in the UK to drive her to safe house: "I live in fear for my safety. I am so scared of him."
Her estranged husband, 33, was set to be deported to his native Serbia after losing custody of his children in the wake of a conviction for his wife's sexual assault in 2007.
During the murder trial, the jury heard a damning story of an increasingly desperate young woman who feared for her life and the safety of her sons but whose anxiety was downplayed or ignored by authorities in two hemispheres over a period of more than 12 months.
The young couple's five-year marriage ended in May after the first conviction and Cassandra Hasanovic initially fled to Australia where she had family. She lived in the fervent hope that she could pursue custody of her two boys from the safety of Sydney's western suburbs. However the Lewes Court in West Sussex heard that Australian courts insisted she return to the UK, arguing that the case had to be pursued through the British courts.
Philippa McAtasney, QC, who opened the case for the prosecution told the Court: "She obeyed the court order at the cost of her life."
In the months that followed her return, police were called to several violent confrontations between the couple and officers equipped the young mother with a police panic alarm.
Cassie's mother, Sharon De Souza, who desperately tried to drive her daughter to a refuge after police refused to drive her, issued a statement through the family's support officer after the verdict.
She provided a photograph of her beloved daughter and her little grandchildren in memory. Mrs De Souza said nothing could express the family's devastation: "Cassie was a beautiful, loving, compassionate, inspirational woman, an amazing mother, daughter, granddaughter, sister, niece, cousin and friend,
"Gentle, warm, thoughtful, caring and generous. A courageous and devoted mother who absolutely adored her children. She wanted to build a beautiful life with them and she had everything to live for. She was just 24 years old when she died.
Mrs De Souza, who now lives in Sydney with her grandchildren, said "a light has gone out of our lies never to be replaced".
". . .She fled to Australia in fear for her and her boys' safety. Cassie was devastated when the Hague convention court hearing in Australia ordered the return of the boys to England. Although Cassie was in fear for her life she felt forced to return with them despite the police deeming Cassie and the boys high risk."
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